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You are going to die.

Yes, you.

Why We’re Here

Most people don’t avoid talking about death because they don’t care.

They avoid it because they’ve never been shown how.

So the conversation gets put off — until a moment happens that makes it harder to have.

By then, everyone is struggling to keep composure as they juggle stress and grief at the same time.

We’re here to have the conversation before emergency, when there’s still time, space, and choice.

This isn’t about being perfect.

It’s about being honest.

What’s Offered

One-on-One Sessions
from $125.00

Who it’s for:

  • People who want to process feelings about death

  • People who want to plan ahead before a crisis happens

  • People who want to talk about their legacy

  • People who are grieving

  • People who just want to start somewhere

What you might talk about:

  • How death was talked about in your family history

  • How you feel about death now

  • Practical planning: Advance Directives, decision makers, funeral wishes, where passwords are stored, etc.

  • How you want to be remembered

What you’ll leave with:

  • The starting of a plan

  • A list of next steps

  • Conversation prompts

  • Resources

  • Peace of mind

Sessions range from 60-90 minutes

Pricing:

Individuals: $125

Couples: $175

Small Groups & Workshops
from $200.00

Small Groups are guided conversations about:

  • Personal experiences and perspectives on death

  • Understanding grief

  • Talking through logistics

  • Planning next steps

  • Thinking about how you want to be remembered

  • How to live a more meaningful life in light of mortality

  • What a good death means

  • How to talk about your death with loved ones

Small groups work well for: faith communities, friend groups, book clubs, community groups, or organizations that want to talk about death and planning ahead in a thoughtful and supportive environment.

Workshops are more educational and structured, focusing on:

  • Understanding end-of-life planning

  • Legacy, anniversaries and ritual

  • Creating a will and advance directive

  • Funeral planning

  • Digital legacy and organization

  • How to talk with loved ones

Workshops work well for faith communities, community organizations, workplaces, conferences, or retreats.

Sessions range from 60-120 minutes

Pricing:

Families (up to 10): $200

Small groups (10-25): $225

Small groups (25-50): $250

Workshops: $275

Death Dinners
$300.00

Death Dinners are small, informal gatherings where people share a meal and talk about death.

If we can talk about death at the dinner table, maybe we’ll feel less afraid and more prepared.

Topics can include:

  • Addressing fears about dying

  • Experiences with loss

  • What we want at the end of our lives

  • Funeral wishes

  • What we want people to remember or know about us

  • What we would regret not saying or doing

  • What makes a meaningful life

Things to know:

  • Death Dinners are limited to Southern California in Ventura, Los Angeles, and Orange counties

  • Death Dinners are held at someone’s home

  • Host or group are responsible for food (cater, potluck, etc.)

  • Group size: 6-10 people

  • Time length: 2-2.5 hours.

Death Dinners work well for small groups, friends, families, faith groups, and community gatherings.

How It Works

First, schedule a consult.

We’ll talk about what your goals are, what’s most important to address (or what you’re avoiding addressing), and what a plan forward can look like.

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Next, purchase a session.

Your session will be tailored based off what we talked about in the consult. Sessions range 60-90 minutes depending on what needs to be covered.

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Finally, bring others in.

Share your reflections with your loved ones.

Start working on items you feel are easiest to begin with.

Be more at peace about your death!

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Contact Us

Want to know more or wondering where to start?

Send a message and we’ll figure it out together.